woman in your life

The woman in your life...very well expressed...


Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate 'HER'


I hope you will do....

will try bro

i will try too bro

really touching topic! and quite interesting, coz it refers to da actual place of women in dis society, but still in our tamil community, dey hav to lose lot of deir hapiness coz of silly culture. equality is smthg lik forbiden in men s mentality. i dunno why. mayb dey need dat women r under dem, coz it makes dem feel stronger or i dunno wateva. as i m kinda feminist, i request u guy, to follow dis nice advice. we r not born to b ur servant. elatil share panikonum. enn kaliyanam kateka kuda " for the worst and the best" endu solinam, so aduku ena artam enda epovum edayum serndu sandikonum sogamo sandoshamo. elathilum sari paadi.

How many of u guyz will behav lik dat??? shumma pesuvinka, but vaalkai endu vareka .. mm mm no one. almost no one!


aha just noticed dat s my 300th post

congrats akka 4 ur 300 post

aha nan edo romba peeeeeeeeeeeeel panni elduuren ninka vera ayoo ayooo

sari sari danksu danksu

mudal nan eludinaduku comment kudunko, alati enda 300th post useless agidum!

akka wat u said is ryt


i will take ur advice akka

aha unaku vellai epo partalum mata opinion a jdge panna tan, giv ur opinion abt da equality between men and women.

akka all i said was i take ur advice but i did not say i 'm goin to do like ur advice did i?

!!~Panithuli~!! wrote:

plus.ladis boysai avalavaa work pannavidurelaiye..

aha adu enn endu enaku teryium, 3 reasons iruku

1. Passatala, boys a work panna vidurela, but boys enkalukaha work seidu tanda, dat s soo cute, we lik it. aha enkala impress panuradukaha vellai seiranae endu edutupom

2. Boys a work panna vittal, 4 per 4 vidama kadaipinam, ido paar, aval avalda purshanai padutira paadu, evilo vellai vankural endu.

3. Boys vellai seida, adu enkaluku normala seira vidda double vellai, avaiku pinala irundu, elam tirupi seyonum!