adra adfra, inda topic tan namma tamil community la oru periya kelvi kuriya iruku enna... sari enda karuthai koncham edutu vidurenae!
Ennai porutavarai 2 ilum nalladu ketadu iruku.
so point poit a parpom.
first lov marriage la enna iruku endu parpom. Lov marriage la rendu perum orutaruku orutar terinchavai. manasu asai pattu tirumanam katika varinam.
i mean anda lov enda feeling ala marriage alavuku vandidalam.
But da prob for our tamil people is dat we r not living wit our lover b4 mariage, so vitila anda person epdi irupar endu teriya. veliya palakurada vatchu tan anda aal ai idai podurom. so adala, after mariage, nanka lov panina aal ivaro endu yosikalam... so lov panuradu ok, but anda aala nalla purinchu vatchukonum. rendu perta manasum teliva irukonum. avasara pada kuda. lov maraige endeka, parents edutha mudivu ila, so oru problem vanda, nanka tan face panonum.
adoda oru aal a marry paneka, avarta family ayum sertu tan marry panurom, so kudubam epdi endu koncham avadu terinchukonum, ilati pragu kastam tan.
vera enna sollalam lov mariage a patri???
ok den let s talk abt arranged marriage
Arranged mariage is very riskly engagement. coz u dunno da person u gona marry. and parents look for someone who has done high level study, wit a good family background, sometimes money/ house idelam papinam. astrology porutam elam papinam. but manasu porutama endu paka matinam. dat s da big prob in such mariage. aduvum enka culture la oruka tan kaliyanam katalam, so oruka marry panni sari akati, enka total life ae spoil akidum. but arranged mariage la ena visiyam enda, edavathu prob vanda, parents a ketkalam ninka tane kati vatchinka, ipo ipdi prob varudae, enna seya endu. but parents wont liv long time.
so inda mariage um perusa nallada teriyela.
so wat kind of marriage? i think marriage vandu romba yositchu oru nalla mudivu eduka vendiya visiyam. oru clothes vankavae evilo kadai eri irankurom, so kaliyanam enda visiyam adai vida mukiyam. oru aal a kaliyanam panna munam, nalla frend a palaki, anda aal a purinchu konda piraku, ela otu pona , prAGU marry panalam. life partner endeka paadai (way) oru padaya irukonum, rendu perum, teliva irundal, oru nalla future amaya chance undu, idu lov mariage o arranged mariage, rendukum porundalam.
idu tan enda opinion